03 Constraints & Avoidances
Two different things: what the system must never use, and what it should keep to a minimum.
Dietary restrictions or allergies — absolute
Medical, religious, ethical. Anything the system must exclude completely, and for whom. e.g. One adult is coeliac. No pork. Severe nut allergy.
Foods that must never appear — absolute
Hard refusals, at the same level as the above. These will never be used.
Foods you would rather avoid — flexible
Strong dislikes that aren't absolute. We'll keep these to a minimum, but may use one occasionally if it earns its place.
04 Food Direction
The register the system is built in — yours, not a generic one.
Which cuisines or styles does your household lean toward?
The ones you cook or order most, or would like more of. e.g. Mediterranean, Japanese, Levantine, simple modern European.
Any cuisines, flavours, or styles the system should avoid?
e.g. Nothing too spicy; no heavy cream sauces.
05 Meals in Scope
Dinner is always designed. Tell us which other meals the system should carry — we design only what you'll use.
Weekday breakfast, in one line
Who eats it, and how much time there is. e.g. Coffee and toast on the move; the kids need something before school.
Who is home for lunch, and on which days?
e.g. One adult works from home Tue/Thu; otherwise everyone is out.
Snacking — what should always be in the house?
e.g. Fruit and yoghurt for the kids; something to have with tea. Tell us what should never run out.
08 The Week, As It Actually Happened
These questions ask about what actually happened — not what usually happens, and not what you intend. Recent, specific, and concrete is exactly right. Don't tidy the picture: the system is designed for your household as it runs, including the parts that don't work. Precision here is what your Design is drawn from.
The last time dinner didn't go to plan
Reconstruct the most recent weeknight when dinner didn't go the way you intended. What time did "what's for dinner" first come up? Who raised it? What happened in the next thirty minutes — and what did you actually eat?
When cooking doesn't happen
What does your household do instead — takeout, frozen, cereal, eggs? And honestly: how many evenings in a typical week does that happen?
The dinners you remember
List the dinners you remember making in the last two weeks. Don't check notes, photos, or order history — only what comes to mind.
What was thrown away
What went from the fridge or pantry to the bin in the last two weeks — and what had it been bought for?
Last weekend's preparation
Did any advance food preparation happen last weekend? What was made, and how long did it take? If none — what filled that time instead?
Who carried the week
For the last week, night by night as best you can: who decided what dinner would be, who had bought the ingredients, and who cooked.
The week that felt easy
Describe the last week that felt easy, food-wise. What was different about it?
What dinner actually takes
Your last three weekday dinners: how long did each actually take, from walking into the kitchen to sitting down?
In your own words, separately
For households with two adults: each of you, separately if you can — what frustrates you most about how this household eats?